This topic is not our domain. Between the two of us we just about have enough hair on our heads to barely fill a travel-sized shampoo bottle! With Neil being bald and me rocking a pixie cut, we’re definitely not experts in Rapunzel-esque wedding hair.

Luckily, we know someone who is an expert — Flamingo Amy! Amy is an absolute magician when it comes to wedding hair, effortlessly transforming locks into stunning, swoon-worthy styles. With years of experience, an incredible eye for detail, and a knack for making every bride feel like the best version of themselves, Amy is the person you want in your corner (or rather, behind your chair) on your big day. Whether you dream of soft, romantic waves, a chic updo, or something totally unique, Amy will make it happen—with a smile and a whole lot of talent.

Read on for her expert tips on choosing the perfect wedding hairstyle.

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Note: The photos shown below were taken by Flamingo Amy.

Your wedding hairstyle is more than just a beauty choice. It’s a reflection of your personal style, comfort, and confidence. With so many options available, it can feel overwhelming to decide on the perfect look. But don’t worry! By considering a few key factors, you can make a decision that ensures you feel your absolute best on your big day. Here are some essential questions to guide you in choosing the perfect wedding hairstyle.

Where is your comfort zone?

The MOST important thing is that you feel confident. If you never wear your hair up and hate the way it looks, don’t force yourself to do it just because it’s considered more ‘bridal.’ Similarly, if you love having your hair away from your face, choose a style that complements that preference. Before you dive into Pinterest boards and Instagram inspiration, ask yourself this simple question: What makes me feel the most beautiful? Your answer will help steer your decision in the right direction.

What is the neckline of your dress like?

Your dress plays a significant role in determining your hairstyle. Here’s a quick guide:

• Plunging or V-neckline: Hair down or a romantic side-swept style can enhance the elegance of this dress style while maintaining a soft, feminine look.
• High Necklines: Typically, updos work well to showcase the detailing on the dress while elongating the neck.
• Off-the-Shoulder or Strapless: Soft curls, waves, or half-up styles can create balance without covering too much of your décolletage.
• Intricate Beading or Lace at the Neckline: If your dress features embellishments around the neckline, wearing your hair up can help highlight these details and prevent your hair from getting caught in the fabric.

What does your hair do best?

Instead of fighting against your natural hair type, embrace it!

• If your hair holds a curl for days, go for soft, romantic waves.
• If you have thick hair that looks stunning in an updo, take advantage of that volume.
• If your hair struggles to hold a curl, you may want to consider an updo or work with your stylist to explore options like clip-in extensions to help hold the shape longer.

Other Factors to Consider

Weather Conditions

If you’re having a summer wedding or an outdoor ceremony, humidity and wind can be significant factors. Loose styles might not hold up well in high humidity, while strong winds could wreak havoc on intricate curls. Consider how your chosen style will hold up throughout the day.

Hair Accessories & Veil

Are you planning to wear a tiara, a floral crown, or a statement hairpiece? Some styles work better than others with these accessories. Likewise, if you’re wearing a veil, think about how it will attach to your hairstyle and whether it might affect the overall look once removed.

Wedding Theme & Venue

Your wedding’s overall theme can help guide your hairstyle choice.

• A boho-chic wedding might call for loose waves with a floral crown.
• A classic ballroom wedding might be the perfect setting for an elegant chignon or sleek bun.
• A beach wedding might work best with a relaxed, tousled look that fits the natural surroundings.

There’s no right or wrong answer when it comes to choosing your wedding hairstyle—only what makes you feel beautiful and confident. Take into account your comfort level, dress details, hair type, and practical considerations like the weather and venue. Most importantly, trust your instincts and work with your hairstylist to create a look that makes you feel like the best version of yourself on your special day.

Check out more of Amy’s work here.